SAFIYA

"There are two types of people: Those who come into a room and say, 'Well, here I am!' and those who say, 'Ah, there you are.'" - Frederick L. Collins

Wednesday, November 02, 2005

I am what I am

When I stand up for myself and my beliefs, they call me a bitch.
When I stand up for those I love, they call me a bitch.
When I speak my mind, think my own thoughts or do things my own way,
they call me a bitch.

Being a bitch means I won't compromise what's in my heart. It means I
live my life MY way. It means I won't allow anyone to step on me.

When I refuse to tolerate injustice and speak against it, I am
defined as a bitch.
The same thing happens when I take time for myself instead of being
everyone's maid, or when I act a little selfish.
It means I have the courage and strength to allow myself to be who I
truly am and won't become anyone else's idea of what they think I
"should" be.
I am outspoken, opinionated and determined. I want what I want and there
is nothing wrong with that!
So try to stomp on me, try to douse my inner flame, try to squash every
ounce of beauty I hold within me. You won't succeed.

And if that makes me a bitch, so be it. I embrace the title and am proud
to bear it. However, I do *hate* the word...*smile*

2 Comments:

Blogger Alex Pendragon said...

Well, well, I waited and waited and waited for another post, and what do I get? Bitch, bitch, bitch! grin......I missed you, mzsaf, and am glad to see you didn't just drop off the face of the Earth! I hope whatever got your hackles up has resolved itself, and yes, it is perfectly alright to take up for yourself on occassion. Speak up against whatever all you want, hun, I sure as hell do!

November 10, 2005  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Girl, u know that is not what u are about. Yes u can and DO all of those things, I think that is what makes u, who you are! The Shells that we all know and love. Nicely done.

November 11, 2005  

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